Do you find that your marriage is in crisis, maybe even heading for a divorce; and you want to repair your marriage? I assume it is the case, since you’re reading this article. I have 2 news for you. One is that you ARE trying to repair your marriage instead of just accepting a divorce and walking out of the marriage, saying “This is not working.” This means that you’re a selfless, responsible and committed spouse, and I commend you on that. The other good news is that, I have saved my marriage from a totally hopeless situation, and will help you do the same.We both know that a marriage crisis is a terrible situation. Since marriage encompasses the whole life, a marriage crisis puts you in a terrible mood at every moment in your life. But do not let that terrible mood overwhelm you if you want to repair the marriage – because when you’re desperate to save your marriage, your emotions will always misguide you. They will tell you to go and apologize to your spouse countless times, and then beg for forgiveness. These are all dangerous and further damaging to your marriage – a begging, pathetic spouse won’t be so attractive!Exactly why you should never rely on yourself if you want to repair a marriage. I know that you feel the need to DO something to fix your marriage problems, but acting according to your emotions is not the right thing to do.What made me save my marriage was acknowledging that by myself, I was getting nowhere. I understood that I needed some outside advice – and when I received that advice, I finally was able to take action to repair my marriage – everything is so good for me right now!