Your marriage started at the highest note possible – those grand marriage ceremonies and a honeymoon like a dream. But you now ask yourself constantly – “how do I save my marriage”?It is a shame how all marriages start at the highest note possible. From there, “down” is the only way to go, how many couples do you know who have lived for years like they are in their honeymoon?Maintaining a marriage requires more than self sacrifice. The key to maintaining a healthy marriage (and saving your marriage, if it is very troubled) is to make sure the “love level” between the couple is well balanced. What do I mean by that? I mean that – spouses have to make sure they are making neither more nor less sacrifices than the other spouse. If one side is making much more sacrifices than the other, this means that he or she loves his or her spouse more than the spouse loves him her. This imbalance always leads to trouble – the gap widens every moment, and sooner or later one spouse finds himself or herself begging the other just so keep and save the marriage.If there is such a gap, the spouse making more sacrifices should always seek ways to improve this condition. The best way is – simply not making the sacrifices the other side demands. This will show him or her that he or she doesn’t have absolute control over you, and you are not completely accessible to your spouse. This will raise your attractiveness to your spouse a lot more – because the easier you can access something, this means the less you are going to want it.