Saving a marriage is not easy if your spouse has made up his or her mind for it. Abandoning the holy bond of marriage and everything that comes with it is a difficult choice to make – and once that choice is made, it’s not easy to turn him or her back.Luckily, it is not impossible and actually, as I have experienced, it’s the small but powerful actions you have to take, that is going to make a difference. When I looked for ways of saving my marriage I always tried to think up big ways to get my husband back to me, but those big and flashy actions in fact only serve to get your spouse further away from you – he or she is probably fed up with you already and doesn’t want flashy things.A step you must definitely take for saving a marriage is to straighten up. Get out of your crying and begging mood. This will serve two very important purposes: First, by stopping to beg and cry to your spouse makes you more attractive in his or her eyes. Why? It’s the most important law in life: If you can have something easily, it’s going to be less attractive you. If you are in the stage of crying now, know that this makes you less attractive in your spouse’s eyes.Second, straightening yourself up will make the clouds in your mind vanish, and will clear the blurriness out of you. This will make you able to think more healthily as to what you should do for saving your marriage.