Marriage advice for men is too commonly given as advice for both men and women at the same time. Men and women think very differently, so why is advice given NOT differently for men than it is for women?The decision to start or end marriage is an easy one. The decision to SAVE a marriage is difficult. Making that decision means that you are ready to work hard, and invest a lot of time into. Although my opinion may be different than yours, I think that your marriage IS worth saving. And I think that you do feel the same way, or else you wouldn’t be taking the time to read this right now. So, let’s get down to business, and get your marriage back on the right track!A marriage is a very special thing. It is a partnership of two different lives, joined as one. This means that, although you are two different people, you should try to live as one – you should be one the same wavelength, so to speak.Today’s marriages are faced with some very difficult situations. Money struggles and affairs are at the top of the list for reasons of divorce. Even if you are faced with these problems, you CAN save your marriage!Men were raised to hide their emotions, and women were raised to show them. Society somehow made this a rule. You do NOT have to hide your emotions – in fact, by doing so, you may very well be hurting your marriage!When you are feeling upset or sad, don’t be afraid to talk to your wife. She may me wondering why the problems aren’t troubling you – your actions may very well be showing her that you don’t care about the marriage. I know this isn’t how you FEEL, but it is what she is seeing. While it may be difficult to show her, you absolutely must open up to her. Just between the two of you. Let her know what you are feeling. Let her know how very much she really means to you. If you can’t tell her, then you are definitely going to have to work within yourself to find the strength. You DO have it in you!More than being told, women need to be SHOWN that they are loved, and appreciated. But how are you supposed to do that? Actually, it’s quite simple. Start small. Do something that you know needs done around the house. A simple thing like taking the garbage out will show your wife that you know she works hard, and you want to try to help her.When she does the dishes, don’t say anything – just go and help her. Dry them and put them away for her. By doing this, you are showing her – not telling her – that you really love her. While these things may not seem important to a man, they are extremely important to a woman. When a marriage is in trouble, words seldom get heard. Actions will show her that she means the world to you, and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to keep her in your life.