For as many who are faced with diverse problems in their homes, the following are the tested and proven solutions to marital instability. These are important issues which need to be attended to urgently:1. Do not blame your spouse for the situation of your marriage as that will only worsen the condition2. Constitute a heart to heart discussion with your spouse for it will strengthen your love. After dealing with yourself and your own inadequacies, you then need to discuss with your spouse, talk together in love but sincerely.3. Take a new decision on what to do. Decide what to do and stick to it, don’t think of divorce for it is not an option.4. Have a vision of what you want. Do not base this vision on marriage of others, but on the word of God and your joint expectations.5. Cultivate the habit of praying together; remember that couples that pray together do stay together, pray together about everything.6. Talk about things you use to do together and how you did enjoyed them, discuss about how to return into them and their benefits.7. Let God take over your home as you study His word together, give you home a new lease of life as you go through the scriptures.8. Create 2 hours per day to talk to each other, about your life, children, joy, fear, plan, vision, aspiration. Talk about anything; your experience in the day, your encounter with others, talk about just anything.9. Dedicate your attention to your spouse by making your spouse your best friend. Do everything you do with friends with him or her.10. Always give each other generous doses of hugs everyday; do not underestimate the power of hugging, it will bring joy back into your marriage, because it is only friends that hug, enemies don’t.With the application of the above ways, you can be sure of redeeming back your marriage from the pit of divorce. It is important to note that, the above ways needs to be carried out from day to day. That is, it must become part of our life style. I welcome you to the midst of happy people and a happy home.