Saving a dead marriage sounds like it could be a difficult task for you and your spouse to take on, but just making some small changes in your lives could make a world of difference. Before you start, you must both make sure you are on board with whatever route you decide to take. If you are not both on board the efforts that one of you are putting in will be fruitless, unproductive, and downright frustrating. Once you have both decided that you are up to the challenge of saving your dead marriage, then here are some simple steps that you can take.1. Break out of your routines. Humans are creatures of habit, just like anything else in this universe, we are going to take the path of least resistance; this happens in marriage as well. After a while we fall into our routines that feel comfortable and breaking these routines is extremely difficult. Make it a point to do something different with your spouse this week. It doesn’t have to be expensive or cost any money, just change your habit. Who knows, once you do, you may find a hobby that both of you enjoy which will enable you to spend more time together.2. Spend time bonding. Wives, this one is for you. I’m not talking about bonding and sharing like you would with your girlfriends, I’m talking about spending some guy time with your husband. If he’s watching a football game, then sit down and watch the game with him. Make sure you are watching like one of his guy friends would do. Don’t interrupt during a big play, don’t talk about plans for the future, just sit and watch. Then, when the game is over, don’t just jump right up and say “It’s my turn now.” Make sure he knows that there are no strings attached to the time you are spending together while bonding.3. Make her feel wanted. I just gave a tip for the women, so this one is for the husband. Make your wife feel like you still want her. Grab her butt while she’s walking through to the kitchen, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, or even go as far as dragging her to the bedroom. The fact that you still think she’s attractive will help her feel like she did when you were first dating and will go a long way in helping the progress you two are making.