Do you want to save your marriage? Be independent!* IndependenceSome of the ground foundation of an everlasting marriage are independence and trust. When you are married you are going to be together for a long time hopefully, this also means you will spend a lot of time together. If you want the time you spend together, to be full of emotional tension and excitement, you need to feel the importance of the other person. The time you really feel how important someone is to you, is when you are not together.* Hobby & FriendsTo save your marriage you and your partner both need to have friends and hobbies that can separate you, so you can recharge your love. This helps you to be independent. It is important for your partner to know that it is OK to be one self and do what you want. Of cause you want to attend events that you can enjoy together, but the less you do this the better you will feel when you do it. Doing stuff apart will also give you opportunities to talk about the things you have experienced. It’s crucial to have a good social circle.* TrustTo save your marriage you need to be able to stay apart without getting jealous, this shows that you trust each other when you are trying to be independent. If you don’t trust each other, your relationship will end sooner or later. Trust in yourself and your goals, have ambition and achieve them so you can keep your partner attracted to you.* AttractionTo save your marriage nurse your attraction. Attraction is amplified by the value of the above mentioned. You also need to do the best with what you got, you might be married, but look to your partner. Groom your hair, dress sexy, smell good and try to have some style. If you don’t do these things it shows that you take your partner for granted and who wants to be taken for granted.