How hard is it to watch a marriage circling down the drain? Not that much, unless it is your marriage. And how hard is it to see your marriage end, when YOU are the spouse who wants to save the marriage? It’s one of the hardest things one can encounter.I assume that you want to save your marriage because you are reading this article. In that case – I feel for you, my friend. I called you a friend because I have been in this exact situation and know how horrible it feels. It felt awful to see that my husband didn’t really care about me or the marriage. I did everything I could think of – but nothing worked and everything looked and FELT so hopeless.But let’s fast forward to today now – my marriage is still here, it’s much more firm than it has ever been, and my spouse loves me more than anything. What more could someone ask in life?And you know what – the things that changed everything for me is simple. Yes, then, every marriage can be saved, if you do the right things.What I did to save my marriage was a psychological method called “being inaccessible”. It might already be speaking for itself – you act to be the “inaccessible, unreachable” person to your spouse. This suddenly makes you much more attractive than the desperate, begging, needy spouse.It might sound like a lot, or even impossible to do. But you CAN do it. And you have to do it. This is a fundamental law of the universe – people want what they can’t have. This isn’t changing anytime soon – so you better start using it to your advantage; because it’s working to your DISADVANTAGE right now!