When it comes to ways on how to save a marriage, some people think that if a marriage is ending and a spouse has made up his or her mind to divorce, there is nothing that the other spouse can do about it. i.e: It’s not possible to “do” something that will save your marriage. Well, today I am standing here as a counter-example: My marriage was failing, my husband wanted a divorce, and everything seemed hopeless UNTIL I started doing the right things. And I stopped the divorce from happening.Before I build up your hopes of a magic solution that will quickly fix everything, I must confess that there is no such solution. However, if you follow the right path with enough determination; you can fix any marriage, you can stop any divorce and you can make your spouse love you more than ever; whatever the situation is. So please bear with me as I tell you how I repaired our relationship.First, when my husband said he wanted a divorce; I reacted the same way all spouses do when they learn it: I panicked. I begged him for forgiveness and pleaded for our marriage. This is what everyone thinks of doing (and probably does) and it is because out of the desperation in your mind, the emotions overwhelming you. You should avoid doing this at any cost. Yes, I did that too but all it did was to push my husband further away from me.If you want to learn how to save a marriage then you have to calm down first. You CAN repair your marriage but first it requires careful consideration of the situation and acting accordingly; not knee-jerk reactions and begging out of desperation will help you save your marriage. The first thing I did correctly was to relax and it is a step in the right direction to stop your divorce.