You’ve had a hard day at work. All you want is to go home to your loving family and relax. You never dreamed you would be faced with wanting to learn how to save your marriage.Things are much quieter than normal at dinnertime, and you are starting to feel uneasy. Did something happen today? Is someone keeping a secret?After dinner, you get hit with it – your spouse has had an affair. It’s all a bad dream – it HAS to be – you’ll wake up soon, and everything will be fine. Unfortunately, this is no dream. This is real. With millions of emotions running through your mind, you are finding yourself sick and drained, and asking how could this happen to us? Many divorces are caused by affairs. But your marriage doesn’t have to end in divorce – you can save your marriage. You can work through this, and your marriage will be stronger than it’s ever been before!First, you both have to talk to each other. Your partner was honest with you about the affair, now you have to be honest with your partner. Tell them how you feel. You may be feeling severe hurt and anger, maybe confusion. Find out WHY they felt like they had to stray. Were they bored? Was it because they felt like they were alone too much? Did they feel like you weren’t paying them any attention?Even though you will likely never forget such a traumatic experience, you CAN learn to forgive them. It was a mistake. We all make mistakes, some worse than others, but mistakes do happen. When you can forgive your spouse, and put this behind you, you will start to rebuild your marriage.When faced with infidelity, wanting to save your marriage is truly admirable. When you know in your heart that the two of you belong together, you CAN work through this.