Is it possible to learn to love your husband again once that feeling has disappeared? Unfortunately this is a question that many married women wish they knew the answer to. Marriage is not always an easy road to follow and with all the pressures put upon a couple it’s easy to see why feelings sometimes shift and change. If you don’t feel that same overwhelming desire and love for your husband that you once did, don’t give up just yet. If you’d like to save your marriage, there is help for you. You can actually fall back in love with him and create a stronger and more meaningful connection than you’ve ever had before.The first step to learn to love your husband again is to let go of all the resentment and anger you may be holding for him. When we are in a partnership like marriage, it’s easy to start to resent the other person if you feel taken for granted. It’s something that many women feel and it can lead to their feelings for their spouse dramatically changing. It doesn’t have to be this way. Focus on letting go of those difficult feelings. Talk to him about the fact that you do feel taken for granted and what he can do to help remedy that. Although we think of a marriage as balanced, it isn’t always. You may have to compromise for now and accept the fact that you have to pull more of the weight. Let him know though, that you do need help and would appreciate it very much if he could step up to the plate for you.What we think about most tends to breed itself into our subconscious. If you’re focusing solely on your husband’s qualities that you dislike, that’s going to overshadow everything else. Stop letting those negative thoughts consume you. Make a point, starting now, to only focus on the things about him that you admire and adore. If you can push those negative feelings to the back of your mind, you’ll find your feelings will shift to a more positive place as well. Try it, you’ll be pleasantly surprised.