If you’re asking yourself “how do I save my marriage”, I know what you are going through. Seeing the marriage for which you did a lot of self sacrifice crumble down to little pieces is very hard. The thought of losing your spouse forever is very hard. It’s almost unbearable.I have been in the same situation, so I know what you are feeling right now. I feel for you. When my husband made it clear to me that he wanted a divorce, all I could do was to beg him not to. And did it work? No.But let’s fast forward to today now. I have saved my marriage. In fact, that’s probably a huge understatement – we are living our second honeymoon now for a long time, it is such a wonderful feeling!Now looking back, I can see what mistakes I made. And I am very confident that all marriages, regardless of how desperate or hopeless their situations might seem; all marriages can be saved.The biggest mistake you can do to save your marriage is to beg your spouse for forgiveness. Because people want what they can’t get, you should play for this. You have to make yourself inaccessible. You have to show your spouse that you are not easily obtainable. This is the key to saving a marriage.And this is exactly why you shouldn’t beg. By apologizing and begging, you are both ruining your credibility and looking needy to your husband – those both work horribly against you!