Do you want to save a marriage? Then listen to me closely, friend. I have been in this situation, and in the end, I saved my marriage. So I hope I can provide some very valuable insight into what you must do to save a marriage.Since I have been in this situation, I know it too well that it makes you desperate, and you want to fix everything quickly. This is the major mistake most spouses make when they want to save a marriage. They give in to the panic, and act desperately.I did it too, unfortunately. I was desperate and couldn’t bear the thought of being without my husband, I loved him so much, and I had put so much in this marriage. I begged my husband for forgiveness, saying things like “Please George! I love you so much! Don’t end our marriage! I apologize for everything, they won’t happen again”, and things like that.Those things only push your spouse further away from you – I learned this the hard way. I am sure that your instincts and emotions are telling you to beg to your spouse for forgiveness, or cry or something like that – you must go against the flow. If you want to save a marriage, you must never give in to your instincts. Know that they aren’t telling you the right things.The best thing to do in such a situation if you want to save a marriage is to seek outside advice, from a third party whom you can trust. Believe me, when I decided to get outside advice on my marriage (I found a guide over the Internet) it made all the difference. You should get a similar guide, or maybe some insight from one of your close friends in whom you can confide. But whatever the source – as long as you can trust in it, you must go for outside advice.